About a month ago, I had a female "friend" verbally attack me saying that my being on disability is just wrong and that it isn't fair that she has to work and I don't. She doesn't even know what my illness is. She did this when going out to dinner with her husband and my fiancé who is also on disability for heart failure. I guess she can understand a heart attack, but not Addison's Disease. I got up and left the table after about five minutes of being verbally attacked in a loud voice. No, I don't "look" disabled, but neither does my fiancé.